Private chat

A couples chat that stays off the family phone

Use this when the problem is the shared device or the shared number, not a lack of group features.

In the app

A private chat, with the locks.

  • A username instead of your phone number.
  • App lock, a hidden list, and a decoy PIN.
  • A vault for files, away from the gallery.
  • Friend chats and groups are free.
See every feature

On this page

One thread

Stay on a friend chat. Pin it so it is easy for you to open, then hide it if the list is visible to someone else. Those two settings solve different moments.

Read ticks can be useful for the two of you and noisy if the phone is unlocked in public. Hide last seen when you do not want opening the app to be visible.

When you want it quieter

Disappearing messages suit a thread you both treat as temporary. The vault suits photos you still want next month. Pick per photo, not as a single rule for the whole relationship.

If you ever need to stop contact, block. The chat leaves the list and messaging stops.

Keep going

Related pages

Random chat

Meet someone new by text

These pages are for random text chat. Private chat by username stays in the app.

The app

Private chat, vault, and locks.

Friend chats and group messages are free. Locks, hidden chats, and the vault are for a phone that is not only yours. Optional random chat stays off until you turn it on.

Identity

  • Email or Google sign-in
  • Username, not a phone number
  • Change a username once a day
  • Devices you can sign out
  • Delete the account from Profile

Friends and groups

  • Search a username and request
  • Accepting a request is free
  • Friend messages are free
  • Groups with admins and mentions
  • Invite links that expire

Messages

  • Text, emoji, and GIF search
  • Photo, video, voice, and files
  • Reply, react, star, and pin
  • Edit for 15 minutes, then delete
  • Read ticks, search, and forward

Privacy on the phone

  • App lock when the tab hides
  • Safety PIN for hidden chats and the vault
  • A PIN on one chat, and blur
  • Mute, and quiet hours
  • Disappearing messages and view-once

Vault

  • Albums, stars, and trash
  • Photos, video, audio, and PDF
  • Share a file with a friend
  • Free space, then token packs
  • Send a vault file in chat

Optional random chat

  • Off until you turn it on
  • Text only on this website
  • Worldwide anyone is free
  • Gender and place are optional
  • Skip, leave, report, talk again

Tokens

  • Welcome tokens for a guest
  • A seven-day claim streak
  • A bonus when you claim an account
  • Packs by country, paid with Razorpay
  • Gift tokens to a friend

Safety

  • Block and report a chat
  • 18+ and the guidelines
  • Hide last seen
  • Password strength on sign-up
  • Analytics only if you allow it

Help

Questions, answered.

A few quick answers before your first chat. The app has its own screens after you claim an account.

Do we both need the app?

Each of you needs an account. The browser can start you off, and the phone app is where media and the vault live.

Can we add a third person later?

Yes. Create a group when you mean to. The couple thread can stay a friend chat.

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