Guide

How to chat without giving someone your phone number

A phone number is easy to forward and hard to retire. A username stays inside the chat, and you choose who may use it.

In the app

A private chat, with the locks.

  • A username instead of your phone number.
  • App lock, a hidden list, and a decoy PIN.
  • A vault for files, away from the gallery.
  • Friend chats and groups are free.
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On this page

Do this

Create a Kissend account with email or Google. Pick a username that is not your phone number and not your full legal name. Send that username to the person, or ask for theirs.

Accept the friend request. The direct chat is free. If you are on a shared phone, turn on the app lock before the thread gets personal.

Skip this

Do not post the username in a public place if the point was to stay hard to find. Search can find a username, and it can also match the name on your profile.

Do not use the website's meet-someone text chat for this. That mode introduces a stranger. A friend request is the path when you already know who you want.

Keep going

Related pages

Random chat

Meet someone new by text

These pages are for random text chat. Private chat by username stays in the app.

The app

Private chat, vault, and locks.

Friend chats and group messages are free. Locks, hidden chats, and the vault are for a phone that is not only yours. Optional random chat stays off until you turn it on.

Identity

  • Email or Google sign-in
  • Username, not a phone number
  • Change a username once a day
  • Devices you can sign out
  • Delete the account from Profile

Friends and groups

  • Search a username and request
  • Accepting a request is free
  • Friend messages are free
  • Groups with admins and mentions
  • Invite links that expire

Messages

  • Text, emoji, and GIF search
  • Photo, video, voice, and files
  • Reply, react, star, and pin
  • Edit for 15 minutes, then delete
  • Read ticks, search, and forward

Privacy on the phone

  • App lock when the tab hides
  • Safety PIN for hidden chats and the vault
  • A PIN on one chat, and blur
  • Mute, and quiet hours
  • Disappearing messages and view-once

Vault

  • Albums, stars, and trash
  • Photos, video, audio, and PDF
  • Share a file with a friend
  • Free space, then token packs
  • Send a vault file in chat

Optional random chat

  • Off until you turn it on
  • Text only on this website
  • Worldwide anyone is free
  • Gender and place are optional
  • Skip, leave, report, talk again

Tokens

  • Welcome tokens for a guest
  • A seven-day claim streak
  • A bonus when you claim an account
  • Packs by country, paid with Razorpay
  • Gift tokens to a friend

Safety

  • Block and report a chat
  • 18+ and the guidelines
  • Hide last seen
  • Password strength on sign-up
  • Analytics only if you allow it

Help

Questions, answered.

A few quick answers before your first chat. The app has its own screens after you claim an account.

Does the other person see my email?

No. They see the username and the profile you filled in.

Can I change the username later?

Once every 24 hours. The old one is held until then.

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Service update

A short pause. Then we’re back to chatting.

Thanks for bearing with us while we get things ready again.