Private chat

A username, not a phone number

People find you by the name you chose. Search works by username, and also by the name on the profile. Nothing in that search reads the address book on your phone.

In the app

A private chat, with the locks.

  • A username instead of your phone number.
  • App lock, a hidden list, and a decoy PIN.
  • A vault for files, away from the gallery.
  • Friend chats and groups are free.
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On this page

Choosing one

Pick a name you can say out loud to the person you want to reach, and avoid your full legal name, your phone number, or a handle you already use on a public network if those would identify you.

You can change the username once every 24 hours. The app tells you when the next change is allowed, instead of failing after you type a new one. The previous username stays reserved until that window ends.

What a username does not do

A username is not a secret password. Anyone you tell can search it. If you want a chat to stay off the main list after they find you, use a hidden chat or a chat PIN. If you want the whole app closed, use the app lock.

Signing out of one device, or of every other device, does not delete the username. Delete the account when you want the profile gone.

Keep going

Related pages

Random chat

Meet someone new by text

These pages are for random text chat. Private chat by username stays in the app.

The app

Private chat, vault, and locks.

Friend chats and group messages are free. Locks, hidden chats, and the vault are for a phone that is not only yours. Optional random chat stays off until you turn it on.

Identity

  • Email or Google sign-in
  • Username, not a phone number
  • Change a username once a day
  • Devices you can sign out
  • Delete the account from Profile

Friends and groups

  • Search a username and request
  • Accepting a request is free
  • Friend messages are free
  • Groups with admins and mentions
  • Invite links that expire

Messages

  • Text, emoji, and GIF search
  • Photo, video, voice, and files
  • Reply, react, star, and pin
  • Edit for 15 minutes, then delete
  • Read ticks, search, and forward

Privacy on the phone

  • App lock when the tab hides
  • Safety PIN for hidden chats and the vault
  • A PIN on one chat, and blur
  • Mute, and quiet hours
  • Disappearing messages and view-once

Vault

  • Albums, stars, and trash
  • Photos, video, audio, and PDF
  • Share a file with a friend
  • Free space, then token packs
  • Send a vault file in chat

Optional random chat

  • Off until you turn it on
  • Text only on this website
  • Worldwide anyone is free
  • Gender and place are optional
  • Skip, leave, report, talk again

Tokens

  • Welcome tokens for a guest
  • A seven-day claim streak
  • A bonus when you claim an account
  • Packs by country, paid with Razorpay
  • Gift tokens to a friend

Safety

  • Block and report a chat
  • 18+ and the guidelines
  • Hide last seen
  • Password strength on sign-up
  • Analytics only if you allow it

Help

Questions, answered.

A few quick answers before your first chat. The app has its own screens after you claim an account.

Can two people have the same username?

No. A username is unique, and a recently changed one stays held until the change window ends.

Does my email show on my profile?

The public identity is the username, the name, and the photo you set. The email is for sign-in and recovery.

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