Guide

How to choose a private chat username

The username is the thing you hand over instead of a number. Choose it as if it will be forwarded once.

In the app

A private chat, with the locks.

  • A username instead of your phone number.
  • App lock, a hidden list, and a decoy PIN.
  • A vault for files, away from the gallery.
  • Friend chats and groups are free.
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On this page

Good fits

A short name you have not used on a public profile. Something you can spell out loud. Change it later if you told too many people, remembering the 24-hour wait and the hold on the old name.

Poor fits

Your phone number, your full name, a workplace ID, or a handle that already ranks for you in search. Those collapse the privacy you just gained.

The username ideas tool can suggest shapes. It does not know your other accounts, so reject anything you already use in public.

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Related pages

Random chat

Meet someone new by text

These pages are for random text chat. Private chat by username stays in the app.

The app

Private chat, vault, and locks.

Friend chats and group messages are free. Locks, hidden chats, and the vault are for a phone that is not only yours. Optional random chat stays off until you turn it on.

Identity

  • Email or Google sign-in
  • Username, not a phone number
  • Change a username once a day
  • Devices you can sign out
  • Delete the account from Profile

Friends and groups

  • Search a username and request
  • Accepting a request is free
  • Friend messages are free
  • Groups with admins and mentions
  • Invite links that expire

Messages

  • Text, emoji, and GIF search
  • Photo, video, voice, and files
  • Reply, react, star, and pin
  • Edit for 15 minutes, then delete
  • Read ticks, search, and forward

Privacy on the phone

  • App lock when the tab hides
  • Safety PIN for hidden chats and the vault
  • A PIN on one chat, and blur
  • Mute, and quiet hours
  • Disappearing messages and view-once

Vault

  • Albums, stars, and trash
  • Photos, video, audio, and PDF
  • Share a file with a friend
  • Free space, then token packs
  • Send a vault file in chat

Optional random chat

  • Off until you turn it on
  • Text only on this website
  • Worldwide anyone is free
  • Gender and place are optional
  • Skip, leave, report, talk again

Tokens

  • Welcome tokens for a guest
  • A seven-day claim streak
  • A bonus when you claim an account
  • Packs by country, paid with Razorpay
  • Gift tokens to a friend

Safety

  • Block and report a chat
  • 18+ and the guidelines
  • Hide last seen
  • Password strength on sign-up
  • Analytics only if you allow it

Help

Questions, answered.

A few quick answers before your first chat. The app has its own screens after you claim an account.

Who can search it?

Anyone who has the app and the exact name, or a profile name you also set.

How often can I change it?

Once every 24 hours.

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